It’s the little things that count, even when it comes to trysting. Small, romantic gestures will get her attention. Even if you think it’s corny, try your hand at romance – it will come back around (usually in the bedroom). Try these tips and your trysting activities will increase (trust us!)

Prepare her favorite meal: A man who knows his way around the kitchen is sexy – ask any woman. Find out what her favorite meal is and surprise her with it – you’ll be guaranteed to get a “good for one tryst” pass. Follow up the meal with her favorite coffee, drink or desert if you want to go the extra mile.

Write a hand-written letter: Sure, email and text has revolutionized the way we communicate, but nothing says romance like a love letter. Slip a hand-written note in the mail or under her door, and add some sexy narratives to it. It can be a love letter, an erotic fantasy, anything you want. You get extra points for using actual stationary or a note card.

Bring her a token present: Girls love getting gifts – especially ones for no reason. It doesn’t matter if they’re expensive or not – they just have to be thoughtful. So it can’t be a teddy bear, it needs to mean something to her. It could be something as simple as something she needs, like a flat iron or soap.

Dance with her: You can move your body in bed, but sometimes it’s ok to show her how you move your money maker. You don’t have to be out at the club – take her for a spin in the living room, on the street, pretty much anywhere spontaneous. All you need is some nice music and no one else in the general vicinity.

Give her a flower: This is another little gesture you can pull out of your hat for no occasion at all. Plus, it only has to be one flower, just make sure it’s original, like an orchid or a sunflower. Please note that dandelions and other weeds, as well as plastic flowers, won’t do in a pinch.

Pamper her: Women love to be pampered (just look at all the spas out there). After a long day, surprise her with a bubble bath, candles and chocolate-covered strawberries waiting tub-side. As she soaks, hop in and give her a massage. Finish it off by toweling her off and treating her to some hot oral sex. This one can’t fail.

In Tryst we Trust