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Tryst Trends – Cheap Dates

Nov 22,2010

A little short on cash this week but want to impress that special someone? You don’t have to spend a lot of cash to impress your Tryst. Here are a few ideas to try out when you’re low on dough on tryst night.

Go for a coffee: A cup of joe for two will only run you a couple of bucks. Try to stay away from the fast food coffee chains. Instead, head to your neighborhood cafe for a local brew or latte. If you’re lucky, they may even offer free refills, and since you’re going to be up all night hopped up on caffeine, we’re sure you can think of other things to do to occupy your time.

Take her for ice cream: A little summer treat will go a long way. Everyone loves ice cream, so buy her a scoop and go for a little romantic walk. The price of this date is minimal, but it will go a long way with impressing her. For an extra dime, you can let her get sprinkles on her favorite flavor.

A game of pool: Take her for an hour or two at your local pool hall. If you forgo the drinks and appetizers, all you need to shell out for is the table. Depending on where you go, it will only cost you $10-$20. And if she doesn’t know how to play, even better – it gives you a chance to wrap your arms around her and guide her stick properly.

Rent a movie: Head to the nearest Blockbuster with your date, and instead of going straight for the new releases, make your way to the shelves that feature the older DVDs. It’s a great way to bond too – you can both fondly remember your favorite movies from the ‘80s and rent them for old time’s sake. And since you’ve seen the movie before (even if it’s been awhile), you won’t feel bad if you miss some of it while taking advantage of some prime make-out time.

Head to the park: Release your inner child and take your tryst to the playground. Show her your playful side as you race down the slide. Or unleash your inner romantic as you push her on the swing. This date costs no money at all, but it will stick out in her mind as one of the most fun ones she’s ever been on.

Pack a picnic: Chances are, your date loves a romantic picnic – but has never been on one. Be her first. You don’t need a basket – just pack everything you’ll need in a backpack, such as glasses, plates, cutlery, condiments, a blanket and a home-cooked meal. If you can splurge, bring along an affordably priced bottle of wine. Once the meal has been eaten and the dishes put away, we’re sure you can find other uses for the blanket.

In Tryst We Trust

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  • Monday
    Nov 8,2010

    It’s happened to the best of us. You get dumped by your Tryst other and it seemed to come out of nowhere. So what do you do now? We’ve come up with some tips that will help you get over the hump and will get you back to humping others in no time at all!

    Erase Their Number From Your Mobile Phone. First things first. Just so you won’t get tempted to send a nasty or begging text message, delete your Tryst’s name and number from your mobile phone right away. Deleting it will save you phoning or texting at 4 am to ask why you were dumped, or drunk dials, begging to take you back. Besides, no one likes being bombarded by text messages from someone that just doesn’t seem to get the hint.

    Stop Obsessing About What Went Wrong: This is a downfall of many people. But you’ve got to face facts:  many break-ups don’t have a specific cause. It’s ok to reflect on what you could have done differently, but it’s not helpful to dwell. Instead, try to live in the moment and think about how great your next tryst is going to be.

    Spoil Yourself : Great for both guys and girls, it could be as simple as a day at the spa or that new gadget you’ve been eyeing. You can also benefit from picking up some new clothes that make you feel sexy. Basically, you should treat yourself as you would want that someone special to treat you. You’re worth it.

    Get Off The Sofa Now. While some regrouping time is necessary, at some point you should try to get in yourself back in shape and back in the land of the living. If you’ve put on weight, then it’s time to lose it. Start eating right and treating your body with the respect it deserves – it’s not the one who dumped you! Go running, walking, biking or to the gym to get the endorphins swimming through you.

    Remember Your Ex Trysts’s Flaws: And trust us when we say that they have plenty of them. It’s easy to get teary-eyed thinking about all of the “great” things about them, but what about your ex’s not-so-great qualities? Remind yourself just how annoying, boring or insensitive your ex-tryst could be, and you’ll be on your way to recovery.

    Take Charge Of Your Life: Now’s the time to start focusing on yourself and your goals.Do all the things you’ve always wanted to try, like salsa dancing or rock climbing. Pick up a new hobby , buy a motorcycle, travel the world, retrain for a new career or go for that promotion. The world is your oyster!

    Don’t Listen To The Negative Self-Talk : When we get dumped, we tend to  negative “self talk” and to worry about so many things: if we will ever be loved again, have sex again, trust again or perhaps we worry we are too old, too fat, too dumb or too anything…to ever be happy and fulfilled again. That is highly unlikely, so relax! Dispel thoughts like that immediately and replace them with positive affirmations of your own self worth.

    In Tryst We Trust

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