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Saturday
Apr 15,2017

We’re focusing on the different places you can go to get down dirty with your affair partner. Choosing the right place to take your affair to the next level can be challenging. You want somewhere private, where you won’t be spotted by friends, family, or co-workers. It has to be somewhere not too close yet not too far, so your odometer doesn’t betray you. Research these accommodations beforehand, so you know exactly what you’re getting. There is no room for errors when it comes to having a successful affair.

Motel

This is a cheap no-frills option for a few hours of privacy. Many motels will allow you to book 1-hour time slots so you can be home before bedtime if you need to. Motels are often very reasonably priced, but you get what you pay for. If the bedding, bathroom, or carpet have seen better days, it might affect the ambiance which might be a turn off. However, if you’re looking for something quick and dirty, a motel is the place for you.

Hotel

A mid-priced hotel is a viable option for spending the night with your affair partner. Hotels offer different amenities, which can allow you more options for hooking up. You can take advantage of the pool or hot tubs in addition to the features available in your room. Look for a place that is within a comfortable driving distance that is also far enough away from your usual haunts. You don’t want to run into anyone you know.

Spa

Booking a couples massage can afford you some fleeting moments before or after your massage. Most spas do not allot more than 5 minutes to change into and out of your robes or clothing before the massage. Your best bet is for some quick foreplay or teasing in the room before moving things to the sauna for some dirty fun.

Remember that you do not want to create a paper trail, so don’t use your credit card to pay for anything to do with your affair. Use cash instead. If you don’t usually carry cash on you, you should start keeping medium to large amounts to avoid making your partner suspicious all at once.

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  • Wednesday
    Mar 15,2017

    Okay. You’ve been thinking you might cheat on your partner. Maybe you’ve been eyeing a cutie at work or a hot young bartender who you’re sure has the hots for you. You’re pretty sure it’s not nothing, but unsure of what to do next.

    Start by flirting back. There’s nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting to see if they’re truly interested. Make sure you’re clear about what you’re looking for, whether it’s a one night stand or an affair relationship. If there’s something really there, you’ve got some planning to do especially if you don’t want to get caught cheating.

    Learn how to cover your tracks. This is arguably the part where most people screw up. Think of all the elements you have interacted with during the course of your cheat session. Did you use your credit card? Did you fill up your gas at a gas station out of your way? Did you drive through any area where your car would be recognized? These are the kinds of things you need to consider and deal with accordingly. Instead of using your credit card, use cash. This way it is more difficult to determine where you spent your money.

    Choosing a place and time can be challenging. You need a neutral space, preferably somewhere you would not usually go. This is particularly important so you do not get seen by family, friends, or co-workers. If you are choosing a public space, like a restaurant or a bar, you need to ensure that this is a place no one will know you at or find a more private area of the restaurant or bar to be in. Private places like hotels or motels will give you the privacy you need to truly be intimate. Next month we’ll dive deeper into where you can go to get down and dirty, so stay tuned.

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  • Sunday
    Feb 12,2017

    Valentine’s Day isn’t just for wives and girlfriends, it’s a great excuse to show someone you care about them. The usual flowers and jewelry will get the job done, but here are some other gift ideas to sweeten the deal.

    1. Monogrammed gifts are a great way to change something generic to something super thoughtful. Commonly monogrammed items include robes, jewelry, cosmetic bags, travel accessories like passport holders and luggage tags, and pillows.
    2. Plan a special dinner for 2 at a restaurant they love. Surprise them with flowers and some sweet treats as well.
    3. For the more adventurous pair, plan a scavenger hunt that ends in the hotel room. Place some clues at places that are meaningful for the two of you, like past date locations, where you met the first time, etc. Go the extra mile and have some oysters and champagne ready for when they arrive.
    4. If they’ve got the winter blues, make them a basket with a mug, hot chocolate, marshmallows, fruit, nuts and chocolate.
    5. Pick up tickets to a romantic musical set or spend the evening laughing at a comedy show. The best gifts are shared experiences.
    6. Head for a couples’ massage at your favorite spa. Add facials or access to water therapies for an all day affair.
    7. If your date has a black thumb, give them another chance to grow something green. A hardy houseplant is a great gift paired with a cute pot and instructions for care.

     

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  • New Year, New Flings

    Sunday
    Jan 15,2017

     

    Happy New Year from the team at Tryst.com! Do you have any new year’s resolutions? We’re strong believers in starting fresh in the new year with new flings. If you’ve been eyeing a cutie at the office or online, now is the time to spark up conversation and try your hand at acquiring a new affair partner. Besides, there’s nothing wrong with expanding your dating pool. Whether you want to send them a text or send them a message online, here are some things to keep in mind when you’re crafting your very first message.

     

    Pick a Talking Point

    To stand out from other people vying for their attention, your message should be direct and interesting. Many times, meandering hellos and self-professed awkwardness is detrimental in garnering a reply. If you like their smile, tell them you like their smile. If you would like to take them out for a drink, say so. Remember, the only time being direct fails, is when you are disrespectful.

     

    Mention Common Interests

    If their profile indicates they have shared interests with you, then this is a great talking point to pick out for your first message. If it’s a television show, mention who your favorite character is or one of your favorite moments. Perhaps you both run marathons, and have ran in the same one in the past without knowing. Whatever it is you have in common, it’s a smart move to mention it to bridge the gap between total stranger to potential fling.

     

    Go Beyond “Hey, what’s up?”

    When they receive upwards of 20 messages a day from potential matches, chances are the ones that say, “Hey, what’s up?” won’t get a reply. Once you’ve figured out a talking point, which could include mention of common interests, your chances of getting a reply will be much higher.

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  • Thursday
    Dec 15,2016

    We all know someone who is an excellent gift giver. Somehow, they have this uncanny ability to know when to reference an inside joke, when to get you the thing you just really needed, or when to get you something to cheer you up. Not only do they have timing right, their choice in gift is oh-so-right too. For the rest of us that don’t have this special power, here are 10 gift ideas to get your affairs partner something nice for the holidays.

    1. Plan an afternoon of holiday fun. Pick up eggnog, rum, cider, or make a big batch of mulled wine. Cozy up by the fireplace and build a gingerbread house.
    2. Is there somewhere they had always wanted to visit? A chalet in the mountains or maybe a tropical resort? For a big-ticket gift, plan a special trip for two. Check that they’re free for the duration, and tell them to pack a bag and passport but you can keep the location secret for the surprise.
    3. Perfume can be hard to get right, but it’s an easy way to get them thinking of you. When they wear it, they’ll get whiffs of it throughout the day and be reminded of the wonderful gift you got them.
    4. Get them something that reminds them of a funny moment or inside joke between the two of you.
    5. Give them tickets to a play or a show they had always wanted to go to.
    6. Recreate the first date you’ve ever been on. This works for anniversaries too (if you celebrate that kind of thing with your affairs partner).
    7. Dine in the comfort of your own home. Cook them a four-course meal complete with amuse bouche, appetizer, a main, and dessert. Decorate tables with holiday inspired décor. If you’re a terrible cook, hire a private chef to prepare the meal.
    8. Head to your local holiday festival or market to enjoy some mulled wine and roasted turkey legs. Shop for last minute gifts or locally made ornaments.
    9. Plan a sexy night in by gifting body oils, lingerie, and toys.
    10. Book massages for two to help you unwind after the holiday hustle and bustle.
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  • Tuesday
    Nov 15,2016

    If you are one of the lucky ones, blessed with the ability to go on work trips, then you have been granted a lucky ticket to Cheater’s Paradise. Cheating in your city can be difficult at times, because you worry you might get caught by someone who knows you or your partner. Cheating while you’re away from home is almost foolproof. If you’re not convinced, here are some reasons why cheating on work trips is the best.

     

    New City, New Women

    Travelling to a new place is great for meeting new women. With these women, you get a fresh start, a chance to be whoever you want to be for a few days. Meet local women to hook up with by using cheating sites like Sweet Discreet. There’s a whole city full of women for you to take your pick from.

     

    There’s No One Waiting For You To Come Home

    It’s almost midnight and you’re tiptoeing into your house trying to be quiet as a mouse. But wait, you don’t need to sneak anywhere because you’re not going home! With work covering your expenses, your hotel room is your best wingman. You can easily bring women back without having to worry about anything. The only thing you have to be accountable for is your books at the end of the trip. From the moment you’re wrapping up that last client meeting, you can start rehearsing pick up lines. There’s no time you need to be home by and there’s no one waiting up for you. Take advantage of the situation.

     

    Expenses Paid

    Most cases, your company will cover your food and hotel expenses while you’re away. Unlike when you cheat at home and have to pay for your own hotel, you’re already covered by work so why not use the hotel for an affair.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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  • Date Ideas

    Saturday
    Oct 15,2016

    Figuring out where to take your affair partner can be tricky business. Going out anywhere for any amount of time, you run the risk of being seen. Even though you might not want to spend a lot of time in public, it can be refreshing to share a meal with your affair partner or see a show together.

     

    Where To Eat Dinner

    If you want to have dinner out, pick a place that you’re sure no one will recognize you even if you have to head out of town. Going the distance is worth it, considering the alternative is being caught. Another option is to have dinner at the hotel restaurant or get room service to your suite. For a few extra bones, you can get the concierge to send up flowers and candles to take it up a notch. Remember to pay for everything in cash.

     

    Where To Catch a Movie or Show

    If there are only one or two theatres in your city, chances are you will run into someone you know. Save yourself the trouble of getting caught and hop on over to the next town to catch the next show.

     

    Overnight Trip

    Plan trips that are a few hours away, either by car or a short flight, to maximize time spent with your affair partner. Putting in the travel time ensures that you won’t be recognized, and gives you more choice in what activities you can do. Visit a vineyard or a museum. Go out for brunch or have a nice dinner out. The possibilities are endless.

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  • Thursday
    Sep 15,2016

    So, you want to cheat, but it’s your first time. You want someone to teach you how and tell you it’s okay. You’ve come to the right place. Here’s what you do.

     

    Make The Choice

    If you want to cheat, you need to know that it’s a life changer. After you cheat once, it’s hard to stop because of the rush and the hot sex. It’s addicting. If you decide to keep going, you’ll need to get set up with ramping up your cash withdrawls, getting an secret email account, and other measures to keep your affair private. You might feel guilty. If you do, then you’ll have to deal with the emotional and physical repercussions. Or, you might feel nothing. Either way, you have a choice to make.

     

    Find The Right Affair Partner

    There is more than one way to do this. Cheating sites like Sweet Discreet make it easy to find an affair partner, all the while keeping your personal details private. Ideally, you want to find someone who is also in a relationship because they will be less likely to rat you out seeing as you have the same things at stake.

     

    Get Set Up For Success

    A good cheater is a good liar. You need to learn how to lie about where you are, who you were with, along with a slew of other things. Rehearse confrontational conversations so you know what you’re going to say. Only use cash for anything related to your affair, and slowly ramp up the amounts. Otherwise, your partner might get suspicious. Make reservations at places you wouldn’t usually go to, and under a different name.

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  • Friday
    Jul 15,2016

    Like any kind of dating, there are do’s and don’ts of affair dating that will keep things running smoothly on all fronts. Especially if your affair isn’t with a stranger, there’s even more at stake. Remember to stay sharp, and never get caught.

     

    Do Use Protection

    Always use protection! One surefire way to out yourself is by giving your partner a nasty infection that you caught from your sidepiece. Think about how awful that conversation would be. Just avoid the whole thing by using protection.

     

    Do Hold Out For The Holidays

    As much as you want to see your affair partner for every holiday, it’s better to wait it out. After spending the day with your family and friends, they’re more likely to wonder where you are and what you’re doing. My advice would be to wait 2 weeks after any holiday before hooking up with your affair partner.

     

    Don’t Over-Share

    If you’re meeting someone new for a discreet encounter, don’t share too many details about your identity or personal life. Remember, they are a wildcard and you don’t want them showing up at your house or place of work as an unwelcome surprise.

     

    Don’t Dip Your Pen In The Company Ink

    Even though it might seem like a good idea, because you already know them, sleeping with someone from work is always a mistake. It can get awkward around the office, and there is the possibility of it complicating your work life in other ways like obstructing promotions or having it used to blackmail you. Be smart and just say pass.

     

     

     

     

     

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  • Wednesday
    Jun 15,2016

    Back To Basics. Cheating 101.

    Cheating is all fun and games until you get caught. Whether you’re new to having affairs or a veteran cheater, it’s a good thing to remember these details while you’re out trysting. Don’t make newbie mistakes like using your credit card or driving your own car straight to the motel.

     

    Use a Burner Phone

    One of the easiest ways to raise suspicion in your partner is by changing your phone habits. Adding a passcode to your phone to avoid prying eyes and broken hearts looks super suspicious. Similarly with taking “business” calls or responding to emails and texts in another room. Your best bet is to get a burner phone. Either a pay as you go or basic plan that will set you back about 30 bucks, but will be totally worth it.

     

    Cash over Cards

    Never use any cards to pay for anything-tryst related. Your partner can easily find out when and where you are using this information. There are very few reasons for you to check into a hotel for a few hours in the afternoon or late at night, and none of them are good. When paying for things using cash, forgo the receipts or keep them hidden away for budgeting reasons.

     

    Your Appearance

    If you start hitting the gym and looking extra sharp, your partner is going to wonder why. Changing up colognes? Forget about it. Look the same, smell the same. It’s the safest bet.

     

    Watch The Mileage

    Whether you realize it or not, your partner knows your entire routine including how long it takes you to get to work and back, and how long it takes you to pick up milk at the grocery store. Don’t drive your car to your cheating locale. Instead, leave it at work if you said you’re working late. If you’re heading out of town for a conference, park your car at the airport. Rental cars and taxis are easy to come by, and this saves you the grief of having to explain why the tracker or GPS they planted said you went to a motel instead.

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