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Saturday
Apr 15,2017

We’re focusing on the different places you can go to get down dirty with your affair partner. Choosing the right place to take your affair to the next level can be challenging. You want somewhere private, where you won’t be spotted by friends, family, or co-workers. It has to be somewhere not too close yet not too far, so your odometer doesn’t betray you. Research these accommodations beforehand, so you know exactly what you’re getting. There is no room for errors when it comes to having a successful affair.

Motel

This is a cheap no-frills option for a few hours of privacy. Many motels will allow you to book 1-hour time slots so you can be home before bedtime if you need to. Motels are often very reasonably priced, but you get what you pay for. If the bedding, bathroom, or carpet have seen better days, it might affect the ambiance which might be a turn off. However, if you’re looking for something quick and dirty, a motel is the place for you.

Hotel

A mid-priced hotel is a viable option for spending the night with your affair partner. Hotels offer different amenities, which can allow you more options for hooking up. You can take advantage of the pool or hot tubs in addition to the features available in your room. Look for a place that is within a comfortable driving distance that is also far enough away from your usual haunts. You don’t want to run into anyone you know.

Spa

Booking a couples massage can afford you some fleeting moments before or after your massage. Most spas do not allot more than 5 minutes to change into and out of your robes or clothing before the massage. Your best bet is for some quick foreplay or teasing in the room before moving things to the sauna for some dirty fun.

Remember that you do not want to create a paper trail, so don’t use your credit card to pay for anything to do with your affair. Use cash instead. If you don’t usually carry cash on you, you should start keeping medium to large amounts to avoid making your partner suspicious all at once.

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  • Wednesday
    Mar 15,2017

    Okay. You’ve been thinking you might cheat on your partner. Maybe you’ve been eyeing a cutie at work or a hot young bartender who you’re sure has the hots for you. You’re pretty sure it’s not nothing, but unsure of what to do next.

    Start by flirting back. There’s nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting to see if they’re truly interested. Make sure you’re clear about what you’re looking for, whether it’s a one night stand or an affair relationship. If there’s something really there, you’ve got some planning to do especially if you don’t want to get caught cheating.

    Learn how to cover your tracks. This is arguably the part where most people screw up. Think of all the elements you have interacted with during the course of your cheat session. Did you use your credit card? Did you fill up your gas at a gas station out of your way? Did you drive through any area where your car would be recognized? These are the kinds of things you need to consider and deal with accordingly. Instead of using your credit card, use cash. This way it is more difficult to determine where you spent your money.

    Choosing a place and time can be challenging. You need a neutral space, preferably somewhere you would not usually go. This is particularly important so you do not get seen by family, friends, or co-workers. If you are choosing a public space, like a restaurant or a bar, you need to ensure that this is a place no one will know you at or find a more private area of the restaurant or bar to be in. Private places like hotels or motels will give you the privacy you need to truly be intimate. Next month we’ll dive deeper into where you can go to get down and dirty, so stay tuned.

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  • Thursday
    Dec 15,2016

    We all know someone who is an excellent gift giver. Somehow, they have this uncanny ability to know when to reference an inside joke, when to get you the thing you just really needed, or when to get you something to cheer you up. Not only do they have timing right, their choice in gift is oh-so-right too. For the rest of us that don’t have this special power, here are 10 gift ideas to get your affairs partner something nice for the holidays.

    1. Plan an afternoon of holiday fun. Pick up eggnog, rum, cider, or make a big batch of mulled wine. Cozy up by the fireplace and build a gingerbread house.
    2. Is there somewhere they had always wanted to visit? A chalet in the mountains or maybe a tropical resort? For a big-ticket gift, plan a special trip for two. Check that they’re free for the duration, and tell them to pack a bag and passport but you can keep the location secret for the surprise.
    3. Perfume can be hard to get right, but it’s an easy way to get them thinking of you. When they wear it, they’ll get whiffs of it throughout the day and be reminded of the wonderful gift you got them.
    4. Get them something that reminds them of a funny moment or inside joke between the two of you.
    5. Give them tickets to a play or a show they had always wanted to go to.
    6. Recreate the first date you’ve ever been on. This works for anniversaries too (if you celebrate that kind of thing with your affairs partner).
    7. Dine in the comfort of your own home. Cook them a four-course meal complete with amuse bouche, appetizer, a main, and dessert. Decorate tables with holiday inspired décor. If you’re a terrible cook, hire a private chef to prepare the meal.
    8. Head to your local holiday festival or market to enjoy some mulled wine and roasted turkey legs. Shop for last minute gifts or locally made ornaments.
    9. Plan a sexy night in by gifting body oils, lingerie, and toys.
    10. Book massages for two to help you unwind after the holiday hustle and bustle.
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  • Tuesday
    Nov 15,2016

    If you are one of the lucky ones, blessed with the ability to go on work trips, then you have been granted a lucky ticket to Cheater’s Paradise. Cheating in your city can be difficult at times, because you worry you might get caught by someone who knows you or your partner. Cheating while you’re away from home is almost foolproof. If you’re not convinced, here are some reasons why cheating on work trips is the best.

     

    New City, New Women

    Travelling to a new place is great for meeting new women. With these women, you get a fresh start, a chance to be whoever you want to be for a few days. Meet local women to hook up with by using cheating sites like Sweet Discreet. There’s a whole city full of women for you to take your pick from.

     

    There’s No One Waiting For You To Come Home

    It’s almost midnight and you’re tiptoeing into your house trying to be quiet as a mouse. But wait, you don’t need to sneak anywhere because you’re not going home! With work covering your expenses, your hotel room is your best wingman. You can easily bring women back without having to worry about anything. The only thing you have to be accountable for is your books at the end of the trip. From the moment you’re wrapping up that last client meeting, you can start rehearsing pick up lines. There’s no time you need to be home by and there’s no one waiting up for you. Take advantage of the situation.

     

    Expenses Paid

    Most cases, your company will cover your food and hotel expenses while you’re away. Unlike when you cheat at home and have to pay for your own hotel, you’re already covered by work so why not use the hotel for an affair.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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  • Thursday
    Sep 15,2016

    So, you want to cheat, but it’s your first time. You want someone to teach you how and tell you it’s okay. You’ve come to the right place. Here’s what you do.

     

    Make The Choice

    If you want to cheat, you need to know that it’s a life changer. After you cheat once, it’s hard to stop because of the rush and the hot sex. It’s addicting. If you decide to keep going, you’ll need to get set up with ramping up your cash withdrawls, getting an secret email account, and other measures to keep your affair private. You might feel guilty. If you do, then you’ll have to deal with the emotional and physical repercussions. Or, you might feel nothing. Either way, you have a choice to make.

     

    Find The Right Affair Partner

    There is more than one way to do this. Cheating sites like Sweet Discreet make it easy to find an affair partner, all the while keeping your personal details private. Ideally, you want to find someone who is also in a relationship because they will be less likely to rat you out seeing as you have the same things at stake.

     

    Get Set Up For Success

    A good cheater is a good liar. You need to learn how to lie about where you are, who you were with, along with a slew of other things. Rehearse confrontational conversations so you know what you’re going to say. Only use cash for anything related to your affair, and slowly ramp up the amounts. Otherwise, your partner might get suspicious. Make reservations at places you wouldn’t usually go to, and under a different name.

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  • Friday
    Jul 15,2016

    Like any kind of dating, there are do’s and don’ts of affair dating that will keep things running smoothly on all fronts. Especially if your affair isn’t with a stranger, there’s even more at stake. Remember to stay sharp, and never get caught.

     

    Do Use Protection

    Always use protection! One surefire way to out yourself is by giving your partner a nasty infection that you caught from your sidepiece. Think about how awful that conversation would be. Just avoid the whole thing by using protection.

     

    Do Hold Out For The Holidays

    As much as you want to see your affair partner for every holiday, it’s better to wait it out. After spending the day with your family and friends, they’re more likely to wonder where you are and what you’re doing. My advice would be to wait 2 weeks after any holiday before hooking up with your affair partner.

     

    Don’t Over-Share

    If you’re meeting someone new for a discreet encounter, don’t share too many details about your identity or personal life. Remember, they are a wildcard and you don’t want them showing up at your house or place of work as an unwelcome surprise.

     

    Don’t Dip Your Pen In The Company Ink

    Even though it might seem like a good idea, because you already know them, sleeping with someone from work is always a mistake. It can get awkward around the office, and there is the possibility of it complicating your work life in other ways like obstructing promotions or having it used to blackmail you. Be smart and just say pass.

     

     

     

     

     

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  • Wednesday
    Jun 15,2016

    Back To Basics. Cheating 101.

    Cheating is all fun and games until you get caught. Whether you’re new to having affairs or a veteran cheater, it’s a good thing to remember these details while you’re out trysting. Don’t make newbie mistakes like using your credit card or driving your own car straight to the motel.

     

    Use a Burner Phone

    One of the easiest ways to raise suspicion in your partner is by changing your phone habits. Adding a passcode to your phone to avoid prying eyes and broken hearts looks super suspicious. Similarly with taking “business” calls or responding to emails and texts in another room. Your best bet is to get a burner phone. Either a pay as you go or basic plan that will set you back about 30 bucks, but will be totally worth it.

     

    Cash over Cards

    Never use any cards to pay for anything-tryst related. Your partner can easily find out when and where you are using this information. There are very few reasons for you to check into a hotel for a few hours in the afternoon or late at night, and none of them are good. When paying for things using cash, forgo the receipts or keep them hidden away for budgeting reasons.

     

    Your Appearance

    If you start hitting the gym and looking extra sharp, your partner is going to wonder why. Changing up colognes? Forget about it. Look the same, smell the same. It’s the safest bet.

     

    Watch The Mileage

    Whether you realize it or not, your partner knows your entire routine including how long it takes you to get to work and back, and how long it takes you to pick up milk at the grocery store. Don’t drive your car to your cheating locale. Instead, leave it at work if you said you’re working late. If you’re heading out of town for a conference, park your car at the airport. Rental cars and taxis are easy to come by, and this saves you the grief of having to explain why the tracker or GPS they planted said you went to a motel instead.

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  • Sunday
    May 15,2016

    Last month we talked about reasons why an open relationship might work for you. If you’ve decided to give it a try, there are a few types you can choose to try with your partner. Some of the differences between these types of relationships come down to variations on exclusivity. Remember, it’s important to communicate your needs and clearly delineate what you are both comfortable with.

     

    Multi-Partner Relationships

    This type of relationship occurs between 3 or more partners where a romantic and or sexual relationship can but does not need to occur between all parties involved. If you and your partner both want to have relationships with other people, this configuration of relationship might work for you. There is a non-exclusivity to this type of relationship that differentiates it from polyamorous relationships.

     

    Swinging

    Swingers can be single or partners in a relationship that engage in sexual relations with others as a social activity. Either partner in the open relationship can swing or the couple can swing together with the intention that others will join in.

     

    Hybrid Relationships

    Hybrid relationships are relationships where one member is monogamous and the other is not. In this type of relationship, the partner that is non-monogamous is able to engage in romantic and sexual relations with other people.

     

     

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  • Friday
    Apr 15,2016

    An open relationship is when two people agree to be together in a non-monogamous relationship. This means that either person can be romantically or intimately involved with other people in casual terms such as dating or longer term relationships like marriage. If you’re looking for any kind of relationship outside of your partner and you don’t want to lie about it, maybe an open relationship is the relationship for you.

     

    In Love and Don’t Want To End It

    You can fall in love with more than one person, and when it happens, it can be a cause for contention in many relationships. If you’ve fallen in love with someone else, but don’t want to end the relationship you’re already in, an open relationship may the solution you’re looking for.

     

    Needs Are Unfulfilled

    One or both partners may have needs that are not being fulfilled by the other. These needs may be intellectual or sexual. Perhaps there is a lack of companionship or similar interests. If these elements cannot be found in the relationship, finding a partner outside of the relationship can fill the void and leave everyone satisfied.

     

    Non-Monogamous by Nature

    If one or both of you are non-monogamous by nature, you want to have your cake and eat it too, why fight your natural urges? Be in an open relationship.

     

    Desire For Challenges

    Being in an open relation may cause jealousy, attachment, or possessiveness, which are all challenges for any relationship to work through. Working through these issues and openly dealing your emotions can be very satisfying and lead to greater self-awareness that strengthens your existing relationship.

     

     

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  • Saturday
    Feb 13,2016

    If you want to keep your affair under wraps, instead of going out for Valentine’s Day with your affair partner, have a night in. With all the other couples out for the evening, who knows how many unwelcome eyes and ears you could attract. Here are some small ways you can make a night in with your affair partner extra special.

     

    Gift Flowers

    Bringing flowers signals the start of a date night that’s more than just watching Netflix and ordering in Chinese. It’s a small gift that goes a long way, with bonus points awarded for knowing their favorite blooms.

     

    Make Dinner

    Nothing says old school romance like a homemade dinner and a bottle of wine. Pro tip: you can even do some practice runs of the meal with your wife or husband first. This way you’ll know exactly how to spice the meat, how long it takes to reduce the sauce, and how long it takes for dessert to set. This meal should be something personalized and delicious. Maybe it’s a version of the first meal you ever had together. Or, it’s all their favorite foods in one meal. Whether you decide to cook together or prepare it on your own, bring some music to set the mood and provide some light entertainment while dinner’s getting ready.

     

    Post Dinner Activities

    Sex. Obviously. But, if you want to warm up with something else first, you can try giving each other massages. Using massage oil makes the experience go smoother and smells amazing. Light some candles for mood lighting and put on some relaxing music. Enjoy!

     

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