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Sunday
Sep 13,2015

Dating profiles are a tricky thing to master. They’re essentially your calling card. If someone wants to see if you’re a potential match for them, they’ll pore over your dating profile before deciding.

 

Don’t Put Down Online Dating

Don’t bite the hand that feeds you. If your profile contains any “I don’t usually do this” or something that indicates you feel “online dating is sketchy” or for people who can’t find dates in real life, then no one is going to contact you. When you use these kind of statements, you make yourself seem unapproachable because you aren’t really into online dating anyway.

 

Don’t Leave Things Blank

If you can’t put the time in to fill out a dating profile, which is usually checking off boxes and occasionally writing a couple sentence, then it’s hard to expect other people to take the time to contact you. People are looking for legitimacy when online dating, and filling out your profile is one of the small things you can do to build that.

 

Don’t Ramble

On the flip side of leaving things blank, some of us are guilty of rambling. If your profile has too much information, then it won’t be given much attention either. Browse a couple of profiles to find the appropriate amount of text to include. If there is a field to type in a paragraph answer, we would recommend limiting your answer to 3-4 sentences.

 

Don’t Overshare

Keep in mind the people reading your profile will mostly be strangers. This means it is unwise to include any of the information regarding your home address and place of work. Similarly, your last name, phone number, or other means of contact on social media is also not a good idea. In the case you someone you haven’t met or rather not meet tries to contact you, you have the option to give them this information or keep it to yourself.

 

Don’t Lie

Do not lie about your age, weight, height or anything else for that matter. This will only get you into trouble, when someone you’re talking to wants to meet up or cam. There is no amount of back peddling that can fix how you’ve changed so drastically, and it will only end in disappointment for both of you. Don’t pretend you have a better job or that you’re in it for the long or short haul if you aren’t. Even if you capture someone’s interest this way, it will only be temporary unless you’re truthful.

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  • Saturday
    Aug 15,2015

    We’ve covered some basic tips for your dating profile to help you out, but it’s about time we focused a little more on how to score that first date. Good pictures, selective messaging, and asking effective questions are great things to incorporate into your online dating formula.

     

    Good Pictures

    We all know the saying a picture is worth a thousand words and in the world of online dating this has never been truer. Your photos should be recent and clearly show what you look like, because people are not going to want to meet up with someone who doesn’t even want to show their face. You should always choose quality over quantity. Having a lot of poor quality photos can do more damage than you know. It is better to have a few good pictures.

     

    Selective Messaging

    Online dating is not the same as online shopping. When you’re browsing for a new couch, you can pick out whatever you like and it can be yours. Online dating is more complicated because you’re both the shopper. Both parties have to be interested. Before you send a message to your potential date, make sure that you fit the bill for them too. Even though you could be the greatest person alive, this doesn’t automatically mean you’re the best match for them. Check to see if you’re in their desired age range, gender, and have common interests. Otherwise, you will waste time sending them a message when you could never have scored a date to begin with.

     

    Ask Questions Effectively

    Dating sites have thousands of people to choose from, which is great in theory. However, it also means that you will be competing for space in the inbox and need to grab your potential date’s attention quickly. An interesting subject line and message is an absolute must. This means you need to read their profile and see what they like. Don’t ask them what they like to do for fun or if they would interested in dating someone like you. Chances are they already filled out that information on their profile, and you have proven that you didn’t take the time to read it. What you can do is ask more specific questions about their interests. If they say they like action movies, you can ask them if they like another specific action movie.

     

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  • Thursday
    Jul 16,2015

    Lying and cheating go hand in hand. Even if you come up with the perfect plan to cheat on your spouse and you’ve gathered the courage to do it, you still need to be able to lie effectively to hide your affair. Here are couple ways to be mindful of your body language, so your affair stays under wraps.

     

    Speech Speed

    You’ve heard of liars being synonymous with quick talkers, but there’s a reason for that. Everyone’s speech speed fluctuates during speaking, but a liar’s speech will speed up or slow down within the same sentence. Usually, a liar’s speech will speed up as they figure out the lie and try to get it out as fast as possible. This means you should figure out your answer before you even start to answer, and be mindful of increases in your speed of speech for the delivery.

     

    Tripping on Words

    Keeping track of all the lies can be a tricky business. Novice liars may start-stop their sentences, or switch up and drop pronouns when trying to recount a fictitious tale. To take your lie-game to the next level, make sure you think carefully about what you’re trying to say before saying it.

     

    One Foot Out the Door

    The expression one foot out the door has some truth to it. People point their feet towards their objects of interest. So, if your partner is discussing redecorating plans for the living room with you and your feet are pointing towards the front door, you’re telling them you’ve got one foot out the door. Lying about being interested in a conversation requires more than just saying the right thing. Your body needs to do some lying too. The next time you find yourself disengaged, realign your feet to pretend like you care. Point them towards your partner or whatever objects you may be discussing.

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  • Monday
    Apr 13,2015

    As with any other relationship, there are just some people you want to avoid. You know the ones we’re talking about. The girl who leaves you 7 missed calls because she is just checking in. The girl who still calls you when you broke up more than a year ago. Let’s not forget the girl who posts sad status updates about you on Facebook. Make sure you avoid these cringe worthy moments by steering clear of these mistresses.

     

    Needs More Time With You Mistress                                  

    This mistress needs, not wants, more time with you. Signs that you’ve landed yourself this kind of mistress: endless calls and texts from her, no amount of time you spend together is enough, she has no hobbies and may be single.

     

    Can’t Keep A Secret Mistress

    If your mistress loves talking to you about everyone else’s business, then it’s likely she’s sharing yours with everyone else. While it might be fun to share a laugh, it’s not worth having your dirty laundry aired all over town.

     

    A Little Too Passionate Mistress

    This mistress is a refreshing when you first meet her, because she knows what she wants and tells it like it is. But beware: this means when you can’t give her what she wants, you’ll be on the receiving end of it. Suddenly, what was once sexy is now overbearing and suffocating.

     

    A Little Too Crazy Mistress

    Like the a little too crazy mistress, this mistress seems like a good idea at first. She’s got a lot of cute quirks and an air of mystery about her. She’s the queen of impromptu visits and surprise coffee dates. Sounds romantic? Maybe, but we’re thinking a few weeks later she might surprise you a little closer to home, and no one wants to deal with that kind of mess.

     

    At the end of the day, use your judgment and listen to your gut. If your mistress smells like trouble, she probably is. You need to be selective if you want to find a tryst-worthy mistress.

     

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  • Biggest First Date Mistakes

    Monday
    Sep 22,2014

    First dates are scary enough with all the pre-date decisions: what to wear, where to go, and what to do if things go sour. For now, let’s skip to the date itself. Here are 5 things to keep in mind while you’re on a first date.

     

    Have a conversation

    Remember, the first date is for getting to know each other and seeing if you have chemistry. It’s important to ask questions and listen to your date’s answers. Often times, we prepare for dates by having a stock of questions to ask. A list of questions should give you a guideline, not an itinerary. If you are actively listening and thoughtfully responding, conversation should flow naturally.

     

    Share your opinions and interests as opinions and interests, not fact.

    Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. For example, if your date asks you what your favorite type of food is, and you answer: “I love Italian food, because everything else tastes bad”, this is probably a bad idea. This is because the assertion that “everything else tastes bad” is your opinion, and not a fact. Instead, a good way to convey that you enjoy Italian food is saying: “Personally, I really love Italian food.”

     

    Be aware of your body language

    Maintaining eye contact shows that you are interested and paying attention. Plus, this helps with making sure you do not accidentally check out other people, or start watching the game. If your arms are crossed, you might seem apathetic or disinterested, so keep them uncrossed.

     

    Do not invite your friends

    Inviting your friends to “run into” you and your date or having the first date as an outing involving your friends is not recommended. Your date should not have to compete for your attention. When you’re in friend-mode, your focus will be divided between hanging out with your friends and getting to know your date.

     

    Overemphasizing serious topics

    While it is important to discuss relationship issues, political beliefs, and moral values along with other hot topics, the first date should be fun and light so if that means avoiding these topics, do it. This doesn’t mean cutting out interesting questions, but it does mean avoiding fighting at dinner with a stranger.

     

     

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  • Friday
    Aug 29,2014

    Navigating the online dating landscape can be challenging. Here are 4 things to keep in mind while you create your dating profile.

     

    1) Be Honest

    Nobody likes a liar. This rings true for the world of online dating too. There’s nothing more disappointing than falling for someone online, and meeting someone more than lackluster in person. It’s a let down and a waste of time for everybody involved. So, stick to what you know: yourself. It’s way easier to feel confident and sexy when you’re not struggling to cover up your own lies.

     

    2) Share Your Interests

    Are long walks on the beach and candle lit dinners your only interests? Well, this might not get you very far, since everyone’s riding that gravy train. There are other things that you make you unique, so play those up. Any obscure bands you might like? Any special hobbies? Or, you have travelled a lot. Tell us where! These are the things that people will find interesting, and they will automatically serve as talking points in your favor.

     

    3) Keep It Short

    Most online daters are going mobile, and bio that is an essay-long will likely be skipped. Plus, there’s plenty of time to get to know each other. It doesn’t hurt to leave some things up to the imagination.

     

    4) Show Off Your Smile

    A smile can go a long way! Pictures of you smiling or laughing show that you are fun and outgoing. People like being around happy people, so you’re more likely to snag a date this way. The number of photos is also important. Posting only 1-2 photos, might make you seem like you have something to hide. The more the merrier!

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  • Thursday
    Dec 9,2010

    Knowing how to give an amazing erotic massage is like holding the fabled “golden ticket.” Once you have the skill mastered, you’re pretty much guaranteed entry into the most tantalizing venues! We’ve put together some steps on how you can rub your way into someone’s pants.

    1.       Set the mood. The ambience is just as important as the massage itself. Get your partner into the mood with some soft lighting, comfortable room temperature and an inviting, intimate space. Bring some aromas-filled candles to introduce relaxing, sensual smells into the room. Some great ones to try out include lavender, jasmine, orange and Ylang Ylang. And get your iPod into the action – create a sensual playlist that helps set and carry the mood, but make sure it’s long enough – you don’t want it to end before you’re finished.

    2.       Be prepared. Have an arsenal of erotic tools at your disposal. One of musts to have is  body oil or massage cream. They come in a range of scented and non-scented brands and can be found at your local drug store. For a soft touch, use soft feathers to gently tickle their back, or heat things up with heated stones. If you work up an appetite, use some  chocolate syrup and whipped cream to lick off your partner’s body

    3.       Start slowly. There’s no need to rush through it, especially at the beginning.  It’s important to be sensitive to your partner’s response and adapt your technique accordingly. Before you start, rub some massage oil or cream in your hands to get it warm, and then go to work.

    4.       Where to start? There is no wrong place to begin. You can start at the feet and move up, or start at the head and work your way down.  A safe place to start is at the back, beginning with the shoulders, then to the neck, moving down to the arms, upper back, lower back, buttocks, thighs, calves, and then feet. Once you’ve finished on one side, have them flip over and work your way back up. Some areas are better massaged softly, while others get more benefit from a deep massage. Once the muscles are warmed up, apply more pressure by kneading the large muscles with the heel of your hand and the entire palm.

    5.       How to use your hands. Keep in mind there is no right or wrong way. Our “hand’s on” research has shown that you should rubs your finger tips softly in softer and more sensitive areas. Your full hand and thumbs are greats on large muscle areas like the outer thighs and shoulders. If you are ever unsure, start softly and progressively massage deeper carefully monitoring your partner’s breathing.

    6.       Take it up a notch. Things are going to get hot – and fast!  It will be hard to hold off once things start heating up, but don’t rush. Hint at and increasingly caress your partner in a sensual manner, but make them wait for it. After rubbing down the more conventional areas of their body, move to their more “sensitive areas.”  Once you move on to the action portion of the evening, try to massage your partner throughout.

    In Tryst We Trust

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