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Jun 15,2016

Back To Basics. Cheating 101.

Cheating is all fun and games until you get caught. Whether you’re new to having affairs or a veteran cheater, it’s a good thing to remember these details while you’re out trysting. Don’t make newbie mistakes like using your credit card or driving your own car straight to the motel.


Use a Burner Phone

One of the easiest ways to raise suspicion in your partner is by changing your phone habits. Adding a passcode to your phone to avoid prying eyes and broken hearts looks super suspicious. Similarly with taking “business” calls or responding to emails and texts in another room. Your best bet is to get a burner phone. Either a pay as you go or basic plan that will set you back about 30 bucks, but will be totally worth it.


Cash over Cards

Never use any cards to pay for anything-tryst related. Your partner can easily find out when and where you are using this information. There are very few reasons for you to check into a hotel for a few hours in the afternoon or late at night, and none of them are good. When paying for things using cash, forgo the receipts or keep them hidden away for budgeting reasons.


Your Appearance

If you start hitting the gym and looking extra sharp, your partner is going to wonder why. Changing up colognes? Forget about it. Look the same, smell the same. It’s the safest bet.


Watch The Mileage

Whether you realize it or not, your partner knows your entire routine including how long it takes you to get to work and back, and how long it takes you to pick up milk at the grocery store. Don’t drive your car to your cheating locale. Instead, leave it at work if you said you’re working late. If you’re heading out of town for a conference, park your car at the airport. Rental cars and taxis are easy to come by, and this saves you the grief of having to explain why the tracker or GPS they planted said you went to a motel instead.

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  • Sunday
    May 15,2016

    Last month we talked about reasons why an open relationship might work for you. If you’ve decided to give it a try, there are a few types you can choose to try with your partner. Some of the differences between these types of relationships come down to variations on exclusivity. Remember, it’s important to communicate your needs and clearly delineate what you are both comfortable with.


    Multi-Partner Relationships

    This type of relationship occurs between 3 or more partners where a romantic and or sexual relationship can but does not need to occur between all parties involved. If you and your partner both want to have relationships with other people, this configuration of relationship might work for you. There is a non-exclusivity to this type of relationship that differentiates it from polyamorous relationships.



    Swingers can be single or partners in a relationship that engage in sexual relations with others as a social activity. Either partner in the open relationship can swing or the couple can swing together with the intention that others will join in.


    Hybrid Relationships

    Hybrid relationships are relationships where one member is monogamous and the other is not. In this type of relationship, the partner that is non-monogamous is able to engage in romantic and sexual relations with other people.



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  • Friday
    Apr 15,2016

    An open relationship is when two people agree to be together in a non-monogamous relationship. This means that either person can be romantically or intimately involved with other people in casual terms such as dating or longer term relationships like marriage. If you’re looking for any kind of relationship outside of your partner and you don’t want to lie about it, maybe an open relationship is the relationship for you.


    In Love and Don’t Want To End It

    You can fall in love with more than one person, and when it happens, it can be a cause for contention in many relationships. If you’ve fallen in love with someone else, but don’t want to end the relationship you’re already in, an open relationship may the solution you’re looking for.


    Needs Are Unfulfilled

    One or both partners may have needs that are not being fulfilled by the other. These needs may be intellectual or sexual. Perhaps there is a lack of companionship or similar interests. If these elements cannot be found in the relationship, finding a partner outside of the relationship can fill the void and leave everyone satisfied.


    Non-Monogamous by Nature

    If one or both of you are non-monogamous by nature, you want to have your cake and eat it too, why fight your natural urges? Be in an open relationship.


    Desire For Challenges

    Being in an open relation may cause jealousy, attachment, or possessiveness, which are all challenges for any relationship to work through. Working through these issues and openly dealing your emotions can be very satisfying and lead to greater self-awareness that strengthens your existing relationship.



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  • Spring Flings

    Mar 15,2016

    With spring around the corner, it’s time for something new and exciting. With online dating, it’s easier than ever to line up some spring flings this month. Remember, be smart and you won’t get caught. Here are some tips on how to clean up your dating profile and attract fellow cheaters.


    Use a Cheating Site

    If you’re looking for an affair partner on anything other than a cheating site, you need to stop. With the popularity of online dating, using a regular dating site will get you caught. Try a dating site like Sweet Discreet. With that said, even on cheating sites you need to be careful with what information and photos you share with the public.


    Keep Your Face Shots Under Lock and Key

    Try not to show your full face in any public photos. Many cheating websites have an option to keep specific photos or albums private. You can share them with the lucky few of your choosing. That’s where you should put photos of your face or ones that give away your identity like photos of your tattoos.


    Be Brief and Engaging

    No one wants to read your life story. Keep your dating profile short and sweet. Be brief and be engaging. When you reach out to potential affair partners, ask them about themselves and their interests.


    The Best Partner Is The Most Discreet Partner

    In a dream world, all our first picks also know how to keep their mouths shut but that is not always true. Chances are if they’re talking about past cheaters they’ve been with, they’ll talk about you too. That’s why I always say the best partner is the most discreet partner.

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  • Saturday
    Feb 13,2016

    If you want to keep your affair under wraps, instead of going out for Valentine’s Day with your affair partner, have a night in. With all the other couples out for the evening, who knows how many unwelcome eyes and ears you could attract. Here are some small ways you can make a night in with your affair partner extra special.


    Gift Flowers

    Bringing flowers signals the start of a date night that’s more than just watching Netflix and ordering in Chinese. It’s a small gift that goes a long way, with bonus points awarded for knowing their favorite blooms.


    Make Dinner

    Nothing says old school romance like a homemade dinner and a bottle of wine. Pro tip: you can even do some practice runs of the meal with your wife or husband first. This way you’ll know exactly how to spice the meat, how long it takes to reduce the sauce, and how long it takes for dessert to set. This meal should be something personalized and delicious. Maybe it’s a version of the first meal you ever had together. Or, it’s all their favorite foods in one meal. Whether you decide to cook together or prepare it on your own, bring some music to set the mood and provide some light entertainment while dinner’s getting ready.


    Post Dinner Activities

    Sex. Obviously. But, if you want to warm up with something else first, you can try giving each other massages. Using massage oil makes the experience go smoother and smells amazing. Light some candles for mood lighting and put on some relaxing music. Enjoy!


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  • Friday
    Jan 15,2016

    Now that the holidays are over, it’s time to get back into the game. All that time spent with family and friends was nice, but you need some me-time too. And, the best kind of me-time is sex with your affair partner. Here are some semi-public places to spice up your affair sex this month.



    All too often, affair sex happens behind closed doors—in hotel rooms, cars, at the office. Even though you’re playing it safe, after a while, it can become a little boring. The next time you’re booking a hotel room, try getting one with a balcony and having sex there. It feels extra hot because people may catch a glimpse of you doing the dirty.


    Hotel Pool

    Sneak into the pool after hours for some wet hot affair sex. You usually won’t get into any real trouble, since it’s not uncommon for people to go for a midnight dip. Just play the “it’s our first time and we’ll never do it again card”, and you’re good to go.


    Parking Lot

    For the times where you just can’t wait to get inside, get started in the parking lot but make it quick. Try to find a spot where no other cars are parked. Or, if you can get between two cars that just arrived, that’s good too. Make sure you use an air freshener or wash your car to get the sex smell out.



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  • Thursday
    Dec 10,2015

    The holidays are almost here and our to-do list is miles long. Buying and wrapping presents. Surviving the check out lines and the parking lots. Scheduling events with family and friends. Stressing out during events with family and friends. It’s never ending, so why don’t you do yourself a favor and have a little tryst? If you’re not convinced, here’s 3 reasons why you should.


    1) Problems are magnified

    With the stress and exhaustion of running holiday errands, all of the problems of your relationship are magnified. The nagging and belittling is already getting old, but when you have to food and alcohol to pick up, people to arrange plans with, and little ones to feed, then it can start to feel extremely overwhelming and stifling. No one wants to be constantly reminded of the chores they didn’t do (properly), when it all comes down to preference. The worst part is that even after the holidays, there’s no break from all of this. So, if you want someone who respects, admires, and desires you, it’s best to look outside of your marriage this holiday season. There’s plenty of women at work, the gym, and through online dating that are looking for the same thing: an affair partner who won’t judge you and understands you.


    2) Reminded of what’s missing:

    Even though you’re there for tree trimming, house decorating, and holiday shopping, it’s easy to feel neglected. It’s hard to really care about these things when traditions feel more like chores, and you’re expected to enjoy and look forward it. I mean come on, who actually enjoys doing chores? Then, at the end of the day, the love and affection you need to get you through the next day isn’t there. Asking to have your needs fulfilled can leave you feeling vulnerable and weak, and with all of the work to do, why bother bringing up another thing to fight about? Your affair partner doesn’t care if you don’t put up the Christmas lights this weekend. Your affair partner doesn’t care if you didn’t use the right wrapping paper. They certainly won’t expect you to put up with their family. So, there’s really no reason to not have an affair.


    3) Just plain bored:

    While she’s singing along to Christmas classics, baking with the kids, and sipping on some eggnog, you’re only half checked in. And, who can blame you? It’s the same thing every year. Plus, there’s all the stress and work leading up to and after. No thanks.



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  • Thursday
    Nov 12,2015

    Finishing a hot and well-deserved romp with your affair partner can leave you in a haze, but never forget to cover your tracks. Here are a couple things to remember when you’re heading out or heading home after an affair.


    Maintain Confidentiality

    If you want to be successful at having affairs and keep your mistress secret, you need to keep it to yourself. That means you can’t tell your best friend, your office mates, or even the barista at the coffee shop near your house. No one. It doesn’t matter if it’s your friend’s-friend’s sister or that random you met at a party once. Your lips are sealed. This way, they do not have to lie for you since they don’t know.


    Use Protection

    Condoms, diaphrams, spermicide, and birth control. These are your new best friends. There is nothing worse than an unplanned baby or some burning-dischargey mess that will definitely get you caught.



    Before you start your fling, begin Febreezing your car and clothes, so that the Febreeze smell becomes a regular scent for your vehicle and person. This way, when you come home from affair-sex or want to get the smell of sex out of your car, the smell of Febreeze won’t raise any suspicions.


    Pictures or Video

    There is nothing more stupid than taking pictures or videos of anything you do with your affair partner. This pretty much undoes everything you’ve done to cover up your tracks, because now there is actual visual evidence of your infidelity.


    Soap and Showering

    Whatever soap you are using at home, you need to bring extra to use for the after sex shower. If you don’t, your partner will notice the difference in smell. If you don’t have the luxury of showering after, you need to shower at home or go to the gym and then shower there.

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  • Tuesday
    Oct 13,2015

    Choosing the place to start your tryst is as important as where you finish. Keep in mind you should probably stay mostly hands off until you’re somewhere more private in case someone you know sees you. Here are some places to meet your affair partner:


    Concert or Show

    Going to a concert or a show is a fun and readily available entertainment choice for any cheater. These are great public places for private meetings. You can even buy your tickets separately and coordinate to be seated together. Even though it may be crowded, you will mostly be in the dark so you don’t have to worry too much about snitching eyes.


    Large Casino

    A large casino is a great place to meet your affair partner because there are tons of different things to do even if you don’t enjoy gambling. Many casinos have shows or concerts going on for entertainment, as well as restaurants to eat at. After dinner, you can drink at the bar or head over to the lounge for some cocktails. At a large casino there are lots of great places for some private time, because we’re sure you’ll want some of that.


    In the Car

    Before heading home for the night, have a quickie in the car with your affair partner. Find somewhere to park and you’re golden. Make sure to Febreeze your car so it doesn’t smell like sex in there. Or if it’s windy, you can drive with the windows down for a half hour.


    Cheap Motel

    Cheap motels are the place to go if you’re looking for something quick and dirty. They have your essentials: 4 walls and a bed. Also, a shower, but it’s up to you if you want to use it. While not all cities and towns have a 4+ star hotel, most of them do have cheap motels.


    4 Star Hotel

    A 4 star hotel is the one stop shop for cheating. Even though it may be more expensive than some of the other options, you can enjoy the facilities and activities the hotel has to offer. You can go for a swim, relax in the sauna, and let things get a little steamy in the hot tub. If you’re hungry, there’s good food and room service to take advantage of. The best part of going to a higher end hotel is that you have entertainment, food, and a place to stay the night.


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  • Sunday
    Sep 13,2015

    Dating profiles are a tricky thing to master. They’re essentially your calling card. If someone wants to see if you’re a potential match for them, they’ll pore over your dating profile before deciding.


    Don’t Put Down Online Dating

    Don’t bite the hand that feeds you. If your profile contains any “I don’t usually do this” or something that indicates you feel “online dating is sketchy” or for people who can’t find dates in real life, then no one is going to contact you. When you use these kind of statements, you make yourself seem unapproachable because you aren’t really into online dating anyway.


    Don’t Leave Things Blank

    If you can’t put the time in to fill out a dating profile, which is usually checking off boxes and occasionally writing a couple sentence, then it’s hard to expect other people to take the time to contact you. People are looking for legitimacy when online dating, and filling out your profile is one of the small things you can do to build that.


    Don’t Ramble

    On the flip side of leaving things blank, some of us are guilty of rambling. If your profile has too much information, then it won’t be given much attention either. Browse a couple of profiles to find the appropriate amount of text to include. If there is a field to type in a paragraph answer, we would recommend limiting your answer to 3-4 sentences.


    Don’t Overshare

    Keep in mind the people reading your profile will mostly be strangers. This means it is unwise to include any of the information regarding your home address and place of work. Similarly, your last name, phone number, or other means of contact on social media is also not a good idea. In the case you someone you haven’t met or rather not meet tries to contact you, you have the option to give them this information or keep it to yourself.


    Don’t Lie

    Do not lie about your age, weight, height or anything else for that matter. This will only get you into trouble, when someone you’re talking to wants to meet up or cam. There is no amount of back peddling that can fix how you’ve changed so drastically, and it will only end in disappointment for both of you. Don’t pretend you have a better job or that you’re in it for the long or short haul if you aren’t. Even if you capture someone’s interest this way, it will only be temporary unless you’re truthful.

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